7 Tips – What Not To Do When Moving To Spain

 

Karen in Seville

 

From Russell, Ohio to Seville, Spain!  That is only a part of Karen McCann’s map of homes.  On our guest writer’s creative map is a very funny writer, an oil painter, and Karen’s new book which will be for sale on Amazon, etc., in August, 2012.  She continues to miss friends and family.  Also, loving to laugh, Karen sometimes misses the cultural context to understand jokes.  That’s ok by me.  It just makes her writing more humorous.

By Karen McCann

Living abroad is an opportunity to reinvent yourself that rarely exists outside the witness protection program. You get to hit the re-set button on your life. When I moved to Seville in 2004, my new friends had no idea that back in rural Ohio, I’d been leading an early-to-bed, low-fat vegetarian lifestyle. Suddenly I was hanging out in smoke-filled bars, having wine-soaked lunches and dinners that lasted until four in the morning. Especially late nights might include strolling home arm in arm with friends, and (if I am to be totally honest with you) singing a medley of old show tunes, Beatles hits, and Besame Mucho. The neighbors put up with it because they know that next time they might be the ones serenading the barrio.

Church in Seville painted by Karen McCann

Relocating to a foreign land is all about trying new things and letting go of preconceived notions – about yourself and everything else. Among the first things to go are usually your expectations surrounding the move itself. Here are seven things I’ve learned you don’t need to do when moving to Spain.

1. Restore a crumbling ruin. Contrary to what you’ve read in all those charming books about building a new life in Europe, you’re not actually required to buy a decrepit old farmhouse and spend years restoring it with the help of semiliterate but wise and amusing locals. I rent a fully renovated apartment in downtown Seville, which has some of the liveliest street life in Europe. Not having to plaster walls and lay tile leaves me plenty of free time to sit in sidewalk cafés sipping espresso and observing the passing scene.

2. Win the lottery. Unless you’re determined to live in unbridled luxury, Spain can be a pretty affordable place to take up residence. We moved to Seville after my husband took early retirement, and even maintaining a cottage back in the old country, our monthly outlay hasn’t changed significantly. If you’re job hunting, finding a good one in Spain’s depressed economy can be tough. However, a surprising number of jobs can now be done online. A young couple I know found marketing and sales work on Craigslist, paid off their college loans in a year and now travel the world, doing their jobs with Skype and emails.

Karen and Rich McCann

3. Wait until you’re fluent in Spanish. While arriving with a working knowledge of the language is handy, you can – like me – pick it up when you get here. Language lessons jumpstart the process, but daily life is where you test-drive your newfound knowledge. It took me months to work out how to order my preferred breakfast beverage, which is té hecho con agua, con un poco de leche aparte para añadir (tea made with water, with a little milk on the side to add in). Less explicit instructions result in a cup of steamed milk with a teabag in it (ugh!) or no milk at all, as if they assume that by “on the side” I mean at someone else’s side.

Karen paints in oils, often on a large scale.

4. Eat spicy food. American friends often arrive expecting a European version of Mexican cuisine and are stunned to discover that the Spanish rarely eat anything even remotely picante (spicey). Relieved to spot the familiar tortilla on the menu, they anticipate thin, flat circles of bread, ideal for stuffing with zesty filling, and are astonished to be presented with a dense omelet utterly devoid of spices or peppers. Even the dramatic chorizo al infierno (chorizo from hell) isn’t highly seasoned, although watching them light it on fire is always good entertainment.

5. Pack a hat. Despite the glaring summer sun and some decidedly crisp, rainy winter days, Spanish urbanites, especially the Sevillanos, go bareheaded. Faced with bad weather, they’d rather duck into the nearest bar than wear a hat. If your goal is to blend with the populace, you’ll do the same. Leave your Panama behind and buy sunscreen and an umbrella when you get here.

6. Worry you won’t meet people. While it’s true many Spaniards are slow to befriend anyone they haven’t known since baptism, there are always some who find foreigners intriguing and will be pleased to get to know you and help you find your way around. The expat community tends to be highly sociable and sympathetic to the trials and tribulations inherent in any major move. Even if you’re not a joiner, you’ll want to consider getting involved in clubs and classes where you can meet locals and the international crowd.

Cover of Karen's new book.

7. Lose touch with family and friends. In these technologically advanced times, you can maintain incredibly close contact with loved ones. And when you live in a destination location like Spain, you’ll find they come to you. Sometimes the biggest challenge is getting them to leave; I’ve had guests arrive for the weekend and stay for weeks. Houseguests who overstay their welcome are often impervious to hints that they should move on. One expat friend, unable to budge such a guest, announced he was leaving town, packed a bag and escorted the guest out the door. When the guest was well on his way, my friend returned to his apartment and resumed his life.

Living abroad keeps you on your toes. One blazing hot night, my husband and I found ourselves sitting on the edge of a big stone fountain. Dabbling our feet in the cool water, pretty soon we were wading, then dancing in the fountain. It’s technically legal to do this on hot nights in Seville, but an old man passing by growled, “Hey you two, is that any way to behave? You wouldn’t do that back where you come from.” And that’s the whole point. Moving overseas, you embrace new experiences and let go of misconceptions that can get in the way of the life you want to lead.

Related Spain Scoop:  The Scoop has more info on moving from those who have stumbled over their crates, freaked that they wouldn’t have a place to live, and ended up loving Spain!

An award-winning journalist, author, editor and blogger, Karen McCann has been living in Seville, Spain, since 2004. Wanderlust has taken her to more than thirty countries, including many developing or post-war nations where she and her husband volunteer as consultants to struggling microenterprises. Today, she spends her time writing, blogging, painting, exploring Seville and traveling the world. For more, check out her website and travel blog at http://www.enjoylivingabroad.com/, visit her on www.facebook.com/enjoylivingabroad and follow her on www.twitter.com/EnjoyLvngAbroad.

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11 Comments

  1. Posted July 15, 2012 at 4:05 am | Permalink

    Hi Karen – all great tips except maybe No 5, nothing wrong with a hat of some description. Love the art by the way.

  2. admin
    Posted July 15, 2012 at 4:40 am | Permalink

    I wear a hat all the time now, even though it may not look ‘local’ – can’t take the blazing sun anymore!

    R

  3. Posted July 17, 2012 at 6:43 am | Permalink

    Thank you for this! I enoyed reading this! I hope to get accepted into the teach abroad program in Seville this September.

  4. admin
    Posted July 17, 2012 at 7:13 am | Permalink

    Good luck Elena, I’ve heard it’s harder to get into those positions now!Check out Sunshine and Siesta’s blog – she talks a bit about teaching in Seville.

    R

  5. Posted July 20, 2012 at 11:30 am | Permalink

    I’ll second your #1. I can’t believe how many people’s idea of bliss is spending all of their waking hours obsessing over their dwelling. Reading about someone doing it is about as boring as it gets for me. Instead of This Old House I prefer This Rented Flat where I just call the casero if something needs fixing. And why would anyone want to live out in the sticks in Europe when the cities are such great places? A cada cual lo suyo.

  6. Posted July 21, 2012 at 11:29 am | Permalink

    I loved reading this! I especially liked your part about the tea – I, too, have been fighting that battle with the Spanish. Sometimes I ask them to give me tea made with 90% water and topped off with 10% milk.

    They always look puzzled, but it gets them to leave space for the milk AND they double-check they added the right amount of milk every time, so it’s always exactly how I want it.

    They might do coffee well but they’ve got a long way to come in terms of tea ;)

  7. admin
    Posted July 23, 2012 at 1:20 pm | Permalink

    Whenever I want tea with milk, I ask for the milk steamed and on the side…

    R

  8. admin
    Posted July 23, 2012 at 1:23 pm | Permalink

    Ha! Yeah Left Banker, there is something nice about not having to be responsible!

    R

  9. Emma
    Posted February 21, 2013 at 8:27 pm | Permalink

    Hi Karen!
    Love this. Got any advice for college students desperate to get back to Spain ASAPPG (as soon as possible post-graduation)? What’s the deal with working legally in Spain as an American?

  10. Posted August 22, 2013 at 4:46 pm | Permalink

    Love this post and LOVED the book! I finished it a few weeks ago and it’s on my travel/foodie shelf as inspiration to make a permanent home abroad. How lucky to live in beautiful Sevilla!

  11. admin
    Posted August 26, 2013 at 2:19 am | Permalink

    Thanks for the feedback!

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